Jenny Stone isn’t the typical college student body
president.
For one thing, the Germanna Community College Student Government Association leader and Falmouth resident is 40 years old, and her 21- and 20-year-old sons plan to join her at GCC for the spring semester.
She’s survived two bouts with ovarian cancer. During her second cancer surgery in 2007, she had a cardiac event on the operating table, she says. A major heart attack and quadruple bypass followed a year later at age 35.
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| Germanna SGA President Jenny Stone |
This month she suffered
a minor heart attack. Doctors tell her that her heart disease has become a grave concern, she says.
Of her heart problems, she says: “I’m not allowing this to
stop or slow my life down. I decided long ago not to dwell in my illnesses or
let them define me.”
She plans to soon take
part in an SGA trip, a winter formal dance and a Fredericksburg Food Bank
drive.
“I’m not resigned to dying,” she says. “But I understand it
could happen any moment.
“In some ways, it makes me a little less afraid,” Stone says.
“I know that tomorrow isn’t promised, so I have to affect today. And that means
by being willing to get up and do things.”
“Things happen. You have to pick yourself up and go. I was
really angry at my body. I was going 90 miles an hour and I really wanted to
make my catering business work.”
She ran Stone Soup Catering at Little Washington in
Rappahannock County until health problems forced her to stop.
“Catering was something
I was good at and I loved it,” she says.
She’s found herself
again at Germanna, she says.
“This school has been a revelation,” Stone says. “I am so
looking forward to my bachelor’s and master’s work.
She’s studying
psychology and plans to get her associate’s degree at Germanna, then transfer
to the University of Mary Washington for her bachelor’s and possibly Marymount University
for graduate work.
She has been a Sunshine Lady Foundation Scholar through the
Germanna Educational Foundation.
“I had not been in school in 20 years,” she says about
coming to Germanna. “I was as terrified as an 18-year-old coming out of high
school. I felt behind the times and old. "
But that feeling didn’t last long. The
fact that she’s been elected SGA president is evidence that she’s accepted by
other students, and she says GCC’s faculty has been “inspirational,”
particulary psychology Prof. Evan Gorelick.
She said she hopes
her psychology studies lead to work helping police officers who are under
stress, as well as family counseling.
“When you get to the
point that your next minute may be your last, you think carefully about what
you want to spend time on,” she says.
“I want to see my sons finish college … I want them to go on
to feel they are a part of a community greater and larger than themselves.” She
said accepting her own mortality led to her focusing on helping others.
She's worked with
the student government at Germanna to help victims of Hurricane Sandy.
“To have an impact,
you can’t just do it as one person, you do it as a community, although my
husband tells me one person starts things,” she says. “It starts at home. It starts
here at Germanna. It starts showing students what community means … That’s
important.”
